Human life cannot be realized by itself. Our life is an open question, an incomplete project, still to be brought to fruition and realized. Each man’s fundamental question is: How is this to be realized—becoming man? How does one learn the art of living? Which is the path towards happiness? We must teach the art of living.
— Ratzinger, December 2000


We have an instinctive and unwavering passion for nurturing personal relationships in order to help others fulfill their God-given potential. This engaging, one-on-one approach has led us to journey with all kinds of people from various walks of life; helping people discover the art of living and create the path they wish to see in their personal, spiritual, and professional lives. We understand that not all people want or need counseling or need or want to see a Pastor.  We land in the middle of those two areas meeting people where they are and moving them forward. We work with:

  • Men

  • Women

  • Marriages

  • Millennials

  • Leaders

  • You!

Relationship. Move. Thrive.


For over 20 years, we have been speaking to audiences all around the globe – guiding individuals to find their purpose and authentic happiness as well as inspiring them to find true freedom in their lives. Whether we are speaking at a corporate or religious event, our goal is to use our knowledge and experience, through the Grace of God, to serve those around us and help create rewarding and purposeful transformations. My wife Gretchen and I, and our team would love to serve you at your:

  • Corporate Event/Conference

  • Religious Retreat

  • Parish Mission

  • Staff Training

  • Marriage Events

  • or whatever event you are hosting!

Inspire. Encourage. Transform.


Through our collaborative, constructive and people driven approach, we’ve helped organizations, churches, schools and dioceses define their core values, create their vision, determine their mission and achieve their objectives. Our aim is to bring clarity to your vision, purpose for your mission, roles for your team, goals that will make real impact and to help build the process you seek for the future.  Our hope is to leave each organization poised to fulfill their calling and make a difference in the world. In the past we have worked in:

  • Strategic Planning, Vision, Mission, and Goal Setting/Implementation

  • Creating Healthy Organizational Cultures

  • Leadership Mentoring

  • Staff Development, team building

  • Events

Evaluate. Build. Execute. Sustain.


Marriage is hard, or at least it can be.  It amazes me how little adjustments make all the difference.  Having someone journey with me to see where those adjustments can be made as I strive to love my wife and Jesus has made all the difference in my life.
— Happy Husband
One of the hardest parts of growing up today is finding your place in the world.  I was struggling to make sense of the many paths I wanted to go in.  I wanted to please God and give my life to Him, but life seemed to big for me.  Coaching from the Art of Living help me find clarity and purpose because it helped my really listen to Jesus.
— Millenial
I had a massive decision to make in my career because I knew God was calling me to something greater but I didn’t know what.  Without the help of the Art of Living, I would have thrown away the platform God gave me to make an impact in the world.  I found where God is leading me and how to follow Him in my work.
— Musican
After 11 years of marriage we began to hit some obstacles. Meeting with Paul and Gretchen we went from good to great marriage!
— -Married couple
I was searching for happiness in everything that didn’t bring it. I eventually hit a dead end and began to work with Paul. I’m now a new man, with a clear vision for my life and the life of my family.
— Business owner
I was leaving my husband and thought that there was no way we could ever work out our differences and have a happy marriage. Meeting with Gretchen changed that trajectory and the I’ve never been happier in my marriage and a wife and mother.
— -Wife and Mom
Our church went from struggling in our reach to thriving in our mission.
— Parish